I came across this blog stating 10 things men find unattractive in women and most of them dealt with the physical aspect of women. Which I am not surprise since men are very visual. I decided to come up with my on list (no particular order) based on my dislikes and complaints I hear from other women. I am quite sure if you were to ask any woman this list would be quite longer, but I don't have that type of time lol! Please feel free to use the comments section to add to the list. Thanks
1. Liar This trait explains itself. No one likes a liar that shows that you are not trustworthy which will hurt the foundation of the relationshp. Women respect honesty even if it hurts.
2. Entitlement Most men feel that if they do something nice or spend money that a woman is supposed to have sex with him. Not so. We know that's what men want but if we feel you are not trying to pursue anything more than sex that is a big turn off.
3. Keeping his word We all have a had one or two guys who said those four words of false hope "I'm gonna call you". We women wait and it never happens. Fellas if we can't trust you to keep your word about the small things how much weight are we going to put into anything you tell us.
4. Insecure There is nothing more unattractive then an insecure man. Always up under you and when he is not around you, he calls and texts you all the time. But the huge one is he is always accusing you of being with other men.
5.Financial Instability. Not all women are gold diggers. But when a man is providing for himself it gives a woman a sense of security. It is good to know that if you need a little financial help from time to time you can turn to your man and he got you "boo".
6. The Playa. No one wants to feel like their emotions are being played with. Fellas be real if you are not ready to settle and you want to see what else is out there. You maybe surprised how that can work in your favor because some women like a challenge and will try change your playa ways
7. Baby Momma Drama It is hard to find a man nowadays with out kids, but no woman wants to have to deal with baby momma drama. As a man you need to get that drama under control. Having drama either means you are not taking care of your children or there is some unfinished business between you and baby momma. Either way clean it up!!!
8. Lack of Style. Fellas keep your stuff tight. Not saying women are superficial but no one likes an unkept man. If you have dreads make sure they are not matted, keep your appointmens at the barbershop. You should also make sure your clothes are clean and age appropriate. There is nothing more unattractive then a 50 year old man dressed like Lil Wayne.
9. The Dreamer I admire a man who has dreams and aspirations, but if you have been pursuing your dream for over 10 years and it has not happen, its probably time to let that dream go. I know people say you should never give up on your dreams but you should also be real. Everyone is not going to be a rapper or entertainer; get a job like the regular folk and make some money.
10. Commitment Phobe This is the biggest gripe women have with men. I can't totally blame the man, but I will lol!. Men you know right away if a woman is wife, girlfriend or benefit material, but you keep that to yourself. Most men will not tell a woman where she stands because she will more than likely stop having sex with him. Men can and will date for years. Anyhow, men let us know where we stand it will make everyting better for everyone. But that would be to much like right.
