Didn't See This Coming

Hello all...sorry haven't given you my weekly crazy stories in a couple of weeks. But unless you have been under rock you have probably seen or heard unbelievable stories during that time. Well here are my top ten crazy, weird, unbelievable stories I've seen online this week. I hope you find them as shocking as I did. Please feel free to comment or share any stories you've seen

1. Missing plane Not sure how this keeps happening the Asian airlines needs the FAA

2. Man having oral sex with his horse...eww gross!!

3. Magician makes speeding ticket disappear...funny!!

4. Isis executes over 2000 people

5. Afghan war over

6. Woman marries dead boyfriend...no words

7. Walmart worker fired for using deodorant & putting it back on the shelf....did I mention $1800 worth...stupid!!

8. Mom tries to eat child...(@-@)blank stare

9. Man shoots mother with bow and arrow

10. Man hides lingerie in ceiling... you can't make this stuff up

Chapter 4: Fatherhood is not forced: it's a choice

In this chapter I try to help mothers understand that they can not make a man "want" to be a father, that is his choice. A lot of mothers believe if they call him all the time fussing and trying to convince him to do the right thing, he will. As a mother once you understand that no matter how much you talk, fuss or have sex with him he will not step up until he decides too. This cycle will keep you frustrated, angry and leads to nowhere but the same result, your son's "father" is not in his life. Your time and energy would serve you best investing in you and your son. I know that you and your son are hurt by his choice but the sooner you accept this the better off you both will be.

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Press Release/Can a Woman Raise a Man

Hello, Here is a copy of my press release. Thank you for taking the time to read it....

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Contact: Marcee' (mar-say) Bonds

Books Name: A Single Mother's Point of View: Raising a Black Man

Phone: 309-648-####

Email: marsay73@yahoo.com

Can a Woman Raise a Man?

Peoria, Illinois 10/19/2014 if you were to ask the average person this question, their answer would be no, but regardless of how you feel about this age old debate the answer is yes. This has become the norm for the black community and the latest statistic shows that 72% of all black households are headed by single mothers. There have been numerous failed attempts to repair the family dynamic but the best option maybe to empower and encourage the single mothers who are raising black men.

This book is written from a semi-autobiographical perspective. The author is a single mother of two males and she shares how she approached her journey of single motherhood. The main focus is to work on the single mother because as the primary parent everything she does affects the man her son will become.

The book shares tips and guidelines on how to put a positive approach on this situation. Some of the things discussed in the book are dealing with your emotions, understanding that fatherhood is a choice and changing the quality of life for your family. The ultimate goal is to help the single mother to know that she is the most important person in her son's life.

The book is available for purchase and download at Amazon, Barnes and Noble and various other book outlets.

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Chapter 3: Be Forgiving and Receptive

In this chapter I discuss how it's important to forgive your baby's father but mainly yourself. It's easy to forgive others the hardest thing is to forgive yourself and once you can remove your self guilt the rest will be easy. This maybe difficult for you but it is necessary and being receptive will allow you to forgive.

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Between a Rock and a Paycheck

This past Monday I was in a dilemma that many parents and especially single parents find themselves in. I had a sick child and I found myself making the decision to either stay home or go to work. I have never experienced this predicament before and I really didn't appreciate that I felt a choice had to be made. Well here is the backstory. My one year work anniversary is coming up real soon and I can get a promotion and I was told by supervisor as long as I did not miss anymore days I was more than likely going to get it. Now mind you I think I have only missed 4 days the whole year so far. But anyhow my motherly instinct was to stay home but the provider in me said go to work.

My issue is that most companies always portray that they value family and it's a core value, but do they really? I feel that most corporations are more concerned about their bottom dollar. I know if I didn't go to work that day my employer still would of been open and the phones would of still got answered. Why should I be denied to opportunity to advance because I have a sick child, which is something I have no control over. As a single parent there are always tough decisions but what do you do when your job is one of the choices. I need my job to take care of my family but the health of my children is important to me also. I know from my personal experience and from the customers at my job that the working class is always making tough decisions daily. Pay rent or your electric bill, buy food or buy medicine. To be one of the richest country in the world we have no compassion for the least of U.S. Thankfully my oldest son did not have to work that day and he was able to stay with him. I am grateful he was there but what if he wasn't available. I would of missed a day of work and an opportunity to get a promotion.

Didn't See This Coming

Here are my top 10 stories for the week. As usual they are weird, crazy and just too unbelievable. Thank you for taking the time to read my blog. Please feel free to share and leave comments.

1.Man "Accidently" leaves toddler in a hot car while he was sexting...Really??

2.Woman steals $144 worth of eye shadow

3.Man rips his on head off..I didn't read this the title alone was too much for me

4.Joan Rivers dies

5.Free medical marijuana for low income families...hmmm only in California

6.Celebs nude photos leaked

7.Man wants a divorce because of to much sex..wow this is news to me lol!!

8.Mrs. Joel Osteen raising hell about pleasing yourself spiritually

9.Man throws baby out car and runs her over...crazy smh

10.Man text/calls ex-girlfriend over 20,000 times get 10 months in prison...new meaning to the word stalker

The Blame Game

This is the title of the second chapter in my book. In this chapter learn to where to really put the blame for your situation. Get your copy today A Single Mother's Point of View: Raising a Black Man available on Amazon in paperback and for Kindle. Thank you for your time.

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Didn't See This Coming

Here are my top 10 stories of the week, sometimes I can't believe what goes on in this crazy world. But as always people never seem to amaze me. Please share any comments or crazy, weird stories you come across and thank you for reading my blog

1. 12 Year Old Stabs 9 Year Old So sad..

2. Wife Sets Husband on Fire...Um just get a divorce, no need for violence

3. Parents Play Video Game Neglect Children for Three Years..Really??

4. Teen Arrested in 6 Year Old Death

5. Matthew Lane Pleads not Guilty to Sex Abuse...hmm I have no sympathy for pedophiles...so sick

6. Teacher Shows up Drunk and Without Pants..WTH!! but it is funny lol

7. Screenshot Sells for $90,000...I need a screenshot lbvs!!

8. The Ebola Crisis..every year there is some new virus

9. Pastor Wakes Up After Being Shot in the Head

10. EMTs Had to stop NYPD From Beating Mentally Ill Man...this is getting out of hand

Didn't See This Coming

Here are my top 10 stories I came across this week. As usual some are crazy and unbelievable, but this week there were some amazing stories as well. Well here ya go and please feel free to share any comments or stories you come across.

1. Malaysian Plane Shot Down

2. Police Kill NY Man with Chokehold

3. Man Adopts Dogs to Dismember Them

4.Charges Dropped Against Mother who Left Kids in Car

5.Vagina Smuggling....WTH!! why would a woman would put a loaded gun up there???

6.Cobras protect a Baby...slap the parents please!!

7.Guy Turns Shower Head into a Girlfriend

8.Man Tries to Have Sex with ATM....(@ @) blank stare

9.Guy Order Pizzas while in Jail....dumb criminal

10.Man Super Glues His Hand to His Penis

Chapter 1: Deal With Your Emotions

This is the first chapter in my book. In this chapter I explain some of the emotions that a single mother may experience as the reality of the situation sets in. I know from my experience that it is best to try and get control over your emotions, it may be hard to do but not impossible. Get your copy today A Single Mother's Point of View: Raising a Black Man Available on Amazon paperback and Kindle

Didn't See This Coming

Here are 10 of the weird, crazy stories I seen this week. People never seem to amaze me but some of these stories left me speechless. Well here we go:

1. LeBron James returns to Cleveland

2. Houston family in mass shooting

3. Mother reach breaking points kills her baby

4. John Wayne's family sues Duke U....Really??

5. Women goes on pet food diet...no thank you

6. Seattle's 1st legal pot shop runs out of weed...not your grandma cigarettes lol!!

7. HIV returns in baby thought to be cured

8. Daughter lives with her mothers corpse....creepy

9. Parents lock child in hot truck...WTH!!

10. Man shoots wife because he is "tired of her"...Wow!! Just walk away

A Single Mother's Point of View

I have not written in a while and I am back and will keep up my blog. I just wanted to share my new book I have just published. The complete title is A Single Mother's Point of View Raising a Black Man. In my book I share things I did in raising my boys and try to encourage single mothers as they walk this journey. To purchase a copy click here Thank you.