Chapter 4: Fatherhood is not forced: it's a choice

In this chapter I try to help mothers understand that they can not make a man "want" to be a father, that is his choice. A lot of mothers believe if they call him all the time fussing and trying to convince him to do the right thing, he will. As a mother once you understand that no matter how much you talk, fuss or have sex with him he will not step up until he decides too. This cycle will keep you frustrated, angry and leads to nowhere but the same result, your son's "father" is not in his life. Your time and energy would serve you best investing in you and your son. I know that you and your son are hurt by his choice but the sooner you accept this the better off you both will be.

Marcee' Bonds

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