Didn't See This Coming..

All I can say is WOW! Some of these stories this week just shows that there are alot of sick and crazy people in this world. Well here go the stories from this week some were shockers and just plain crazy.

1. Man not sorry for kiling HIV postitive mistress

2. Mom sues Walmart after she says employees ripped up her money

3. UK media in uproar over Kate Middleton's topless pics

4. Aspiring rapper tweets YOLO about driving drunk dies minutes later

5. Missing woman found alive in freezer

6. Naked & bloody man gnaws on woman's head

7. Woman finds ex-boyfriend living in her attic over 12 years after break up

8. 92 year old man tries to kill his daughter-3 times

9. Wisconsin dad sets fire to kill family

10. Pediatrician arrested for child porn

Does He Really Love You?

I know we all have had that one guy we were crazy about, we were crazy in love and thought we were losing our minds at the same time. He was a great guy but we just couldn't figure him out. One minute he was sweet and caring and the next minute he was gone. All the while we are behind trying to figure out what happened. Then he comes back he must love you, right? Maybe who knows but there is nothing more frustrating then not knowing how a person feels about you when you are totally feeling them. I participated in a webinar the other day that wanted to help women know if a man really loved them or not, even though I am not in a relationship at this time I want to be prepared lol. Anyhow, the relationship expert is a man and who better to know a man. He said there were 7 questions to ask yourself to figure out if your man loves you or is using you. You can go through the questions and give yourself a point for each yes. Okay here we go.

1. Does he say "I love you"? Seems obvious but this is a good indicator. Also keep in mind even if he does not actually say it all the time, is he showing it in his actions. Do you feel that he loves you?

2. Does he make you A priority in his life? You should at least be in his top 3 priorities, he will always have work, kids & family. Here are somethings he might do for you if you are important to him. Attend a function he hates, because of you. He gives you occassionl gifts and if he loves you he will make you #1 sometimes.

3.Does he tells his friends about you & show you off? Have you met his best friends and family? A man who is in love wants to show his woman off.

4.Does he care about your pleasure during sex? Is he 100% focused on himself? Does he ever open his eyes while your making love? Just some things to think about, but you should know if a man is wanting to please you.

5.Does he respect & encourage you? Does he value your opinion? Does he treats you like a partner? Does he encourage you to have friends and interest outside the relationship? (note: Jealousy is NOT love)

6.Do your friends like the way he treats you? Friends are often better judges of a man than you are. Ask you close male friends and male relatives about your man, they will let you know about him as well.

7. Does he looks at you like he will do whatever to get in your pants? Does he check you out? The visual is very important to men and if he is not looking, longing for you he is probably not physically attracted to you anymore.

Ok hopefully you added up all your points

If you score is:

7..he is good at showing it

5-6....he loves you so just focus on the good

3-4...mostly meaning that something is there it is just not that deep

1-2...he is a jerk and run, he is using you or he resents you

NOTE: You should not answer these questions unless your are beyond the dating stage and he is your boyfriend

Didn't See This Coming..

Here are some stories I found interesting and noteworthy this week, hopefully you will too.

1. Michael Clark Duncan dies

2. Drew Peterson found guility of 1st degree murder of his 3rd wife

3. Chad Ochocinco tattoos his wife's face on his leg

4. Father watches as neighbor ties up his son and let his dog attack him

5. Chinese river turns red

6. Angry ex-girlfriend triggered US Airways bomb hoax

7. Ohio teen travels quarter of a mile through sewer

8. State Farm faces criminal investigation over hurricane claims

9. N.J. casino sues gamblers who won big on unshuffled decks

10. Good Samaritans stop the crime, but mistake victim for mugger

Didn't See This Coming

Here are some stories that I came across this week, as always some are sad, crazy and just weird.

1. Togo women push sex strike to unseat president

2. Former Gov. Sanford engaged to Argentine mistress

3. Sherman Hemsley is still not buried family dispute over money

4. 10 year old Maine girl charged in infant's death

5. New Orleans hit by hurricane Isaac

6. Man sues male enhancement drug company for disgusting side effects(very disgusting, ugh!!)

7. DJ stalked men & broke in their homes & performed oral sex on them while they were sleeping

8. 2 guys arrested on drug charges were trying to shoot up heroin while parked outside police station

9. Shooting at supermarket in New Jersey

10.Perry Hall High School shooting

Didn't See This Coming..

Here are some of this week's stories that caught my eye this week. This world never disappoints. I'm always afraid that I will not have any stories to share but as long as people are sick, crazy and weird, I will be okay :)

1. Top Gun director Tony Scott leap to death from bridge

2. Red Lobster employee attacked for good service

3. Romney predicted to win election

4. Girl forced to marry her rapist kills herself

5. Parents sue after son forced to bathe at school

6. 7 year old attempts suicide twice after bully forces him to perform oral sex on school bus

7. N.J. mom who once lost custody decapitates 2 year old son

8. Rapper LL Cool J nabs intruder at home

9. Book on Bin Laden raid coming out Sept 11th

10.Empire state building shooting

Obsession: U got it bad

Have you ever listened to this song by Usher and thought to yourself, man he had it bad and you could never see yourself so hung up over somebody. Well I think we all have been here at least once in our lives. You are obessed with someone. You think about them all the time, they are always in your head. Everything reminds you of them. Every, tv show, song on the radio, what you eat for lunch, you just can't help it. You start trying to understand why this person is always on your mind. Sometimes people will confuse their obsession or longing for love, when in reality that is all it is. Most times we obsess over people we can't have or are not sure about, because if they were around more you wouldn't have to think about them so much.

I do not think there is nothing wrong with this. It only becomes a problem when you can't control your emotions behind the obsession. Once you lose control you start doing crazy things, like texting and calling all the time, stalking their facebook page, or just happen to be where they are just to see what's going. I will never understand how people think but we all know the more you try to pursue someone the more they resist and start to think you are crazy and you never fulfill your desire which is to be with that person.

The best option is to step back and give it some space and take this time to evaluate yourself and understand why you are obsessing over this person. This behavior is unhealthy. While you believe that convincing someone to be with you they would want you more but it does not work like that. Just think about people who pursued you that you were not interested in. No matter how hard they tried or what they did, you did not change your mind. The same is here for the person you have this obsession for. I know that giving space and waiting is hard but get busy while you wait and either the person will come back to you or if they don't, your obsession will lessen over time.

Didn't See This Coming...

I missed last week so here are stories for both weeks. All crazy, unbelieveable, and wierd.

1. Shooting at temple in Wisconsin

2. Two 13 year old boys steal car and drive from Ohio to Missouri

3. Randy Travis arrested for drunk driving and he was naked

4. Man becomes texting champion wins $50,000

5. Man kept girlfriend in padlocked room

6. Hearse driver dies while taking body to funeral

7. Woman has been using eye drops to poison boyfriend for years because she wanted attention from him

8. Man accidentally calls 911 during drug deal

10. Chinese boy gets head stuck in stone guardrail