Does He Really Love You?

I know we all have had that one guy we were crazy about, we were crazy in love and thought we were losing our minds at the same time. He was a great guy but we just couldn't figure him out. One minute he was sweet and caring and the next minute he was gone. All the while we are behind trying to figure out what happened. Then he comes back he must love you, right? Maybe who knows but there is nothing more frustrating then not knowing how a person feels about you when you are totally feeling them. I participated in a webinar the other day that wanted to help women know if a man really loved them or not, even though I am not in a relationship at this time I want to be prepared lol. Anyhow, the relationship expert is a man and who better to know a man. He said there were 7 questions to ask yourself to figure out if your man loves you or is using you. You can go through the questions and give yourself a point for each yes. Okay here we go.

1. Does he say "I love you"? Seems obvious but this is a good indicator. Also keep in mind even if he does not actually say it all the time, is he showing it in his actions. Do you feel that he loves you?

2. Does he make you A priority in his life? You should at least be in his top 3 priorities, he will always have work, kids & family. Here are somethings he might do for you if you are important to him. Attend a function he hates, because of you. He gives you occassionl gifts and if he loves you he will make you #1 sometimes.

3.Does he tells his friends about you & show you off? Have you met his best friends and family? A man who is in love wants to show his woman off.

4.Does he care about your pleasure during sex? Is he 100% focused on himself? Does he ever open his eyes while your making love? Just some things to think about, but you should know if a man is wanting to please you.

5.Does he respect & encourage you? Does he value your opinion? Does he treats you like a partner? Does he encourage you to have friends and interest outside the relationship? (note: Jealousy is NOT love)

6.Do your friends like the way he treats you? Friends are often better judges of a man than you are. Ask you close male friends and male relatives about your man, they will let you know about him as well.

7. Does he looks at you like he will do whatever to get in your pants? Does he check you out? The visual is very important to men and if he is not looking, longing for you he is probably not physically attracted to you anymore.

Ok hopefully you added up all your points

If you score is:

7..he is good at showing it

5-6....he loves you so just focus on the good

3-4...mostly meaning that something is there it is just not that deep

1-2...he is a jerk and run, he is using you or he resents you

NOTE: You should not answer these questions unless your are beyond the dating stage and he is your boyfriend